So Labor day weekend was packed with the Erickson's Wedding events.
Caiden and John were both officially in the wedding, and I was unofficially in it as well. Whoever knew that being the parent of the ring bearer was such a tiring and demanding task?? Well I am here to let the cat out of the bag...IT IS!
Caiden did so good. We of course arrived to rehearsal Brown style...that is late of course because my husband always under estimates the time it takes to do something hence the term "Brown Time". At rehearsal the flower girl was having some breakdowns like most of us girls do and Caiden turns and says "She cries a lot mommy" I told him to get used to it! So they both finally got it together and ran down the isle for the last run through. Oh and we (when I say "we" I mean" I" since John had to practice as well) had Ethan to chase around and keep happy.
Next it was off to the rehearsal dinner. Here the flower girl and Caiden hit it off and suddenly the crankiness was gone. What a miricale...wink..wink! Now this was where Ethan had to have his turn and start his breakdown since we were well into his bedtime at this point. So mommy and daddy Brown had to get their food to go. Off to Grandma and Grandpa Brown's.
So this was the first time we have put both boys in the same room to sleep...WOW! Surprisingly it only took 30 minutes to finally get them both to go to sleep at the same time...you know one would be almost asleep and the other one would start screaming. It was great fun. After that daddy and mommy took advantage of the free babysitting and jetted out to a night out on the town in Lawton. Let's just say it didn't take long to remember why John and I never want to move back.
The day of the wedding we had more Brown dilemma...we go to leave to get the tuxes and I forgot to pack Caiden's favorite shoes (flip flops) so we have a breakdown about that. We get to the tux place and John's works out fine, but Caiden's needed some touch ups. We had to tuck his shirt in (it looked like a man's shirt on a little boy, but we had a jacket to cover WHEW!), we had to pin the vest and sleeves on his jacket with safety pins. Now we all know how toddlers attention span is nill and we had to have him try the thing on a hundred times and each time was a minor wrestling match. Oh and his shoes were too big so we had to layer 3 pairs of socks on him.
So of course we have to take a nap after lunch so we are not cranky for the wedding at 6pm. We rush to get dressed and head off. We get to the church on time at 4:30pm and John gets out of the car and the bottom of his shoe comes off...I am talking the entire sole. I have to finish getting Caiden dressed (who wants to put a toddler in a car seat in a full blow tux) so John and another groomsman run to Dollar General to buy super glue for a quick fix. No I did not tell the bride!
Caiden does well for the pics before and the time to kill before the wedding starts, but about 5 minutes before we line up to walk down the isle Caiden has a breakdown...so all of us, that is bride, bride's dad, ,bridesmaids, and flower girl's mom are trying to get him calm to just make it down for the real thing. Well my natural performer lit up when the doors opened and he saw his audience! Caiden and the flower girl were PERFECT!
Then during the wedding Caiden kept running back and forth between daddy and me. It was only about 3 times during the whole ceremony and the bride and groom said they never saw him! I figured him going back and forth was better than screaming. Oh and I failed to mention that we have been pumping the two little ones full of candy to help keep them quiet. I love having chewed up tootsie roll in my hand during a wedding!
Afterwards during the last set of pics he had about enough of being good and decided to throw the pillow so we had to eliminate the pillow from the pic but I was pretty sure that they would be able to tell him role from the size of him! Then daddy and I dropped him off at the grandparents, told him we had to go to work so he didn't flip out and hit the reception and after party.
Here are some pics that were taken. They by no means tell the story that you just read, but trust me...it all happened just like that! My little man is sooooo cute!